Collin – July 11

July 13, 2010 by Collin Wolff  
Filed under Project Rockstar Blog

1st week in Stockholm

I have become very inspired during the first week in Stockholm, not only from all of the amazing Love Systems instructors and last year’s rockstars helping us out in every way, but also from Riddler and Prince who have been cracking eggs of knowledge all over us. People say that if you want to change your life don’t wait for something to happen, you have to make the change yourself. Most people that want to change their lives know this, but still remain unhappy because change is very difficult and we are resistant to it. These guys have taught us a specific, structured system on how to change our lives, get what we want, and how to be happier every single day. They gave a talk about values and beliefs that was mind blowing. When I say it was life changing I mean it in the most literal sense. Because it not only applies to game but every aspect of anything you want to do in your life. Amazing.

As for game – haven’t been doing much daygame so far in Sweden, I decided I really need much more help with night game at this point. That being said, I have still gotten a few beautiful Swedish girl’s phone numbers during the day and at this point still prefer daygame to nightgame. In fact, my first day in Sweden I got a beautiful girls number, my favorite girl I’ve met so far during all of rockstar. Problem is she lives a couple hours out of Stockholm, but we are keeping in touch and she might be visiting Stockholm again soon, I hope!

So getting into Stockholm I knew I had to work on my lagging night time skills. Wednesday night I went out and winged with Chase all night. Chase shocked me with how much he had progressed. His vibe was so on, teasing, playful, funny, sexual. I learned a ton from Chase this night. On the way home I saw 2 cute girls in the bar across the street from the hotel and had Gabriel wing for me. He talked to the drunk boring girl while I hit it off with her friend. We exchanged numbers and I went to my hotel going to bed. Got a text, “what are you doing?” Normally I’d invite her over, BUT found out the hard way that we are not allowed guests in our hotel rooms. This is a catastrophe. Trying to find a solution to this problem.

Thursday night I never really found my groove. Stayed talking to the same girl for about an hour until I ran out of gas, I never really felt that she was that into the convo anyway. Still too dependent on other people to get myself in a good mood, need to work on this.

Friday – the best night of rockstar for me personally, although I don’t think anyone else had a good time lol. Riddler and Prince taught us an anchoring technique to be able to get in state anytime we want. For me, it worked really well. Last week I knew I had to find a way to have a good time and not rely on who I am with to have fun. This is the solution to that problem.

I winged with Chase again this night. Chase is awesome. We both were wearing white shirts with black ties, so our opener was “do these shirts make us look gay?” So lame, but we were having so much fun it didn’t matter. We talked to a lot of girls this night, barely wasting any time in between conversations. I had a blast all night.

As we were leaving, a girl that I had talked to earlier in the night ran up and grabbed me. We talked for a while and really hit it off. She tested me by picking out a random girl at the bar and daring me to walk up to her and tell her she was gorgeous. Little did she know I have been doing this nonstop for the last 4 weeks lol. So I had no problem with that one. Went to another bar until about 4 or 5 am, and I knew I couldn’t get her into my hotel. So we went to her parents place in the burbs, (they were out of town).

Nice house up on a hill overlooking a harbor with yachts and sailboats. It was about 6 am, the sun was already up, and we were up on her rooftop deck enjoying the view and listening to the birds and the waves. After the concrete jungle of London for 3 weeks, this was a beautiful moment for me. I just took a deep breath, smiled, looked out at the water and at the pretty girl next to me and thought to myself, things are starting to come together here! We have been working so hard on getting better and getting out of our comfort zones and enduring some painful embarrassing blowouts, it was really nice to enjoy some of the rewards from all of that time put in in London.

Satuday we went out to another club. I got to hang out with Mr. M for a while, this guy is on another level. When I was walking in the club I saw a gorgeous latin girl in a tiny red dress. Later that night, Mr M asked me to wing while he talked to her. He had her laughing and hugging him in no time. He got her number in about a minute. It turns out she is a victoria’s secret model. Mr M has sick game! Learned a lot from him once again by watching him in action. Had a great time in the club, talked to many girls. Was trying to meet up with a girl I met the day before, I guess she made it to the club but never made it in. So I met up with the girl from the night before and enjoyed another beautiful sunrise =).

Things at night time are starting to click, I’m really understanding the vibe I need to be giving off more, in big part thanks to Chase and Mr M. This week I focused on doing 3 warm ups, teasing, sexual hoops, and escalation. I have gotten better, but I still need more work on all of those things. Started keeping a personal journal, working on body language, and exercising my body and mind every day. I am being very disciplined here, and have fallen into a great daily routine. It takes 3 weeks to make something a habit, so I am very focused on doing these things every single day while I am here in Sweden, so that when I go home 3 weeks later I will have formed some very positive habits that I will bring back with me.

- Collin



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