THE END……What Have I learned…

I not really sure what this impact have had on my life but I think it definitely changed the way my children’s going to look.

I came here high on life after I got the call from Mr.M that Monday 13 days before rockstar. I don’t think I told anybody that I applied a while before so it probably came as a shock to somebody “dad” around me. I don’t think that I’ve been more excited about anything in my life this was as cool as it would be.  I came here with the aspirations to become a dating coach then go to school a few months later. I was going to start up a form an e-commerce then stay behind in London just hitting the clubs and be sarging like crazy. I was on a high in life.

I don’t think I could have been more wrong of what to expect, I now know that not even the people organizing this “event” knew what was supposed to be the product of it.  It was crazy in the begin and I’m not surprised that one dropped out.

So am I disappointed at the experience that this has been. Absolutely not, this has been such a learning experienced that has open up my eyes for what’s possible for me in my life. Partially because the things we were taught and mostly because the people that I’ve met during the journey.

This was marketed as away to work and wealth, health and relationships. Well I took and threw the health part out of the window when it came down to choose what to do in the schedule that didn’t have room for anything. So with two things to focus on you might think that I would have time to work hard on them, but no. I don’t really remember anything the first weeks of rockstar so it’s going to be interesting to read the book and to go back on my blogposts.

WHAT HAVE I LEARNED THEN…

Game: Game is f*****n easy and fun. I have some kickass memories with the guys out hitting on women. We all came here as “ordinary” people not socially awkward and some beginner’s skill in game, we were all very different in the way we interacted with women and turned in to a cool crew of guys. I came in with a clunky outer game and poor inner game. My biggest problem with women was that I had no skills in how to create the emotional connection with woman. I had easier to pull same night lays and being sexual, which turned out to be a good skill in Vegas. I look back at what I’ve learned in all these classes and I can’t really remember. I now have a moleskine notebook full of notes that I need to goo trough and map out. But I know that I’m really good now. How can I do that if I can’t put my fingers on what I’ve learned? It’s more of a feeling inside of me, I’ve had more than enough of positive reference experience with women now to now that I’m good.  I don’t know if there is anything that scares me on a night with a roll probably, but I’ll most likely do it anyway.

What is that I feel? I would like to say that I feel more complete as a man of what I can do, I’m not controlled by my fears. I can run after a beautiful woman if I see her on the streets. I don’t have to wonder what if I did approach her. I came here with a desire to connect with women and not to sleep with as many as possible. I think I coming really close to my goal I’ve been seeing one girl now for little while and it’s a good and new feeling to hang out with her.  It has also removed my desire to go after absolutely everything with two legs and breast that’s hot. I don’t know why, but she told me I could go on as usual since I’m a part of rockstar. I have honestly tried to hit on other women but I don’t have any desire for the moment and I have now abounded the idea of me being a guy that would like multiple relationships.  I would actually give it a go if I was staying in London with this girl, but for now I just enjoy the good feeling she is giving me, who knows what can happen in the future. I now feel comfortable with the idea that I can build relationships with women. So I can’t say anything more than mission accomplished, and thanks to all the instructors and fellow rockstars that has been there for the journey.

Business: I have now started to think about life in completely different new angle of what is possible to do for a living. I come from a blue collar family where it’s taking pride to work for the system and being a part of society and pull your weight. Practically all my friends in my hometown are hard workers in some form, and so is my family. I never even thought in the terms that we have been talking about here in rockstar.  I had some small ideas but nothing this planned out, I now know where I’m going and what I’m setting out to do. I now know where to aim my energy thanks to fellow rockstar and now friend Aaron. He showed me what is possible in the world of online marketing and talked and inspired with his way of life. The more we talked the more I saw how I think it suits me as a worker, and I’m now setting out to hit my goals. I came here to e inspired and to learn new ways of making a living. I know that I can work the living shit out of my body and be pulling 80 workweeks in freezing cold snow and water whipping up on. I’m now 27 almost 28 years old and I can already feel how my body is going to fall apart due to damage I got from working my ass off for somebody else. I’m never going to back to way of life I was living before it’s just not a possibility in my reality. I know look for the feeling in this area of life as I have with women. It’s the feeling of you don’t care if you lose, you can always get more money/women. I GOT THIS SHIT HANDLED. It means that there is room for improvement but you know what you are doing. So get back to me in three months and we will see where I am. I will consider that my goal here is almost achieved as it changed so much during the path of rockstar, but I’m happy with the outcome of it.

Health: well I have had two home cooked meals since I entered rockstar, both of them thanks to my dear friend that I stayed with in Stockholm. So as you may imagine I’m not in any better shape than before I was rockstar. I made it an active choice to skip training and focus my time on other the other task since I got easy access to this since before.  I got a diet and workout schedule being taken care of as soon as I touch ground in my hometown anyway.

So what’s going to happen now, well I’m going to my home town until at least New Years Eve. My purpose is to too work in peace and quiet, since I’m really tired of the shitty living standard the London flats have to offer at staggering prices. I’m going back to Sweden as results in the debate where I would get the most work done. But I’ll be back out in the world really soon. The goal is to join the other Rockstar in mars to start a real rockstar mansion hitting it big in the states. Yes it will be revealed later but we’re all going to take our supernova to the max. Be sure to check out this blog later next year.

Instructorship: Do I still want to be an dating coach? Do I want to be a part of the community? The dreaded LSS!!! These are questions that I asked myself and I’m not as sure as I was eight weeks ago. First of all rockstar has been a lot of Approach coaching since it’s a good way to become good yourself and teaching others, a little bit too much in my taste. I didn’t really feel that competent in the beginning at first, I have now risen to the challenge and feel comfortable taking a newbie out and help him, I don’t enjoy it really today thouh.  I really need some time away before I can take a decision in if I want to peruse the goal of instructorship. Because what guys don’t get is you don’t get paid to go out and pick up women, you get paid to go out to hold grown man in the hand and tell them that the hot blonde over there won’t kill you when you tell her she looks good. I can and have approached instead of sending away student to women when I was AC’ing during rockstar and I don’t regret it. That’s how I had some of the most interesting interactions so far, and how I met some of the most interesting people around the world. I will make up my mind to New years eve if this is something I want to put my time and effort in. But in the meantime if you’re in Oslo at the end of this month 28th of Nov make sure to check out Day Game expert Jeremy Soul. He’s having one of his day game seminar and I will be there to help out.

But tanks to all the readers this has been super fun and I will get out of the community, at least for a while but you never know. I need to focus on other thing in my life right now.

The guys I would like to thanks for this awesome experience are:

Vishal (cya NYE)

Aaron, Alex, Josh (rockstar mansion Vegas is waiting for us)

Jeremy Soul (cya NYE and thnx for the time in STHLM)

Vercetti you big hug bear….

Keychain have to do some more day game shenanigans with you.

Dr. Yen my pc-muscle is growing every day thnx to you J

London Playboy thnx for the torture garden ticket.

All the instructor and business mentors that have been there and a part of this journey thanks for your contribution, 5.0, Sheriff, Jeff, Kunal, London wizard, Paladin, Alex Sargent and a few more. I hope to meet up with a lot of you guys again.

Last to be mentioned Mr.M you have had a huge impact on the way my life turned out, and you keep on having a huge influence in my life. A really hope I can show you my gratitude one day but for now SUCK IT.

And Adam I would like to percived as Suave, charming Swede with absolutely Dazzling smile so don’t fabricate anything.

Stay classy

-Micha

Ps. Sandra is a dork, but a cool one

Build the supernova

Days 36-37: Not Funny

Monday

Spent the morning in a session with ubermentor Jeff talking about real estate and asset protection. I then went back to Rockstar West to sleep for a while, as I was up late the night before with a fever.

Josh and Micha joined Vercetti in the evening for salsa and game, I stayed in to rest. I ended up talking with Alex for hours about online business, and we came up with some truly wicked stuff. The kind of stuff that you haven’t seen published in any ebook, guru course or anything ANYWHERE.

I also spent some time practicing intrigue-based attraction routines, in the form of baits and frames.

Tuesday

Had an early-morning session with Sheriff about qualification and breakthrough comfort. Without going into crazy amounts of detail, the basic process is the elicit her values via information she gives you, and then feed these back to her in the form of cold reads or statements or third-person framing. For comfort, Sheriff and Mr M mentioned that I need to convey more emotion when discussion my passions and purposes… even if I need to start becoming good at lying about the amount of emotional impact that they have on me. They also told me that this is a good principle or concept to apply when delivering things like SOIs or qualifying girls who really don’t have that much going for them apart from their looks (god this makes us sound manipulative).

Alex then gave an absolutely gangster talk on SEO and how to apply some of the SCM concepts we’ve been learning into it.

All this talk of business is great… I love it. But in the context of the last couple of weeks of Project Rockstar, it’s bad for me. It’s shifting my RAS back to doing business and the other parts of my life rather than focussing it on game, which is where it should be at the moment. I’m going to sit down with Micha a bit later tonight and do some modelling work on his mindsets about women and how he focuses his RAS on women all the time (even though his is starting to shift towards money and wealth creation too).

We spent the afternoon in-field for daygame. Our instructor for the day was Sasha (http://www.sashapua.com/), and we also got to meet Ace, one of the London Community’s old-hands. Sasha went through a lot of exceptionally good theory about daygame, about using short, punchy 30-second hook stories, different types of openers and different ways of infusing humour into our openers. Basically making pickup more fun and light-hearted.

Sasha is one of those instructors who knows what he’s talking about, and I’m really glad I wrote down all the things he told us, and then tested them out in-field… otherwise I’d only be writing bad things about him right now. His theories and application of them is great. The way he treated some of the Rockstars… not so much. He threw out some racial slurs at me and some anti-Irish insults at Conor, and some general insults all round for the Rockstars. This did not create the best of emotions in us, and thus when it came time for him to push us in-field, most of us just flatly refused. I pulled him aside and laid down some boundaries: I told him that we respected and appreciated that he had come all the way from Canada to teach us, that his material and what he had taught us was awesome… but that he was also causing us bad emotions and we felt offended by some of the things that he had said. We agreed to just focus on the daygame and in-field.

Josh and I were walking ahead of the group, and started approaching women. In contrast to the bad moods that we had previously, we were having so much fun that we just wandered off and did our own thing. In all fairness, I used the openers that Sasha and Ace had given us. Mostly variations of delayed humour, or openers that would normally cause some level of social anxiety. And they work, really well. Obviously they need more practice and fluency to be able to used effectively and consistently, but it is bloody awesome to have a new set or class of openers to use rather than just bread-and-butter direct for daygame.

We ended up being joined by Micha and investing mentor Trackstar later on, and did daygame on the streets of London until dinnertime.

Sticking Point stuff I’ve been working on-

Outer Game

• Verbal Game – opening, transitioning. It works. Yay. Can throw humour-based openers into here too.
• Verbal Game – attraction. Needs more work. Intrigue-based stuff is almost down. Next in this category is teasing & roleplays Braddock-style. Sheriff has some advice in this area too.
• Verbal Game – vibing. Fits well into qualification the way Sheriff suggests doing it. Needs more field testing.
• Verbal Game – qualification. I’m combining this into “vibing” as it fits in well there.
• Verbal Game – SOIs. I need to list out more of these, add more emotional oomph to them and roll them into vibing/qualifiaction.
• Logistical Escalation. Needs field practice.
• Physical Escalation.
• Takeaways.
• Delivery.

Inner Game

• Logistical Escalation. Needs field testing.
• Identity & Beliefs. I’ve explored the sexual vibe that I saw in Dahunter/Brad P/Starlight. Now to field test it. I’m doing a modelling exercise with Micha later about his vibe and the way his RAS works.
• Capitalising on reads in real-time (this is a behaviour-level change). Done. Initial field testing shows that I’m aware of how to capitalise on them but I’m not, because for the most part the intent is not there and I really don’t care. I need to explore this more.
• Boundary function. I think I exercised this pretty well today

- Aaron P

Bootcamp Glory

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Day 15: Relaxing

We started off the day with the last day of the Munich Bootcamp. Mr M gave probably the most comprehensive talk ever on qualification, followed by a talk on comfort. Keychain also talked about sexual escalation and logistics.

The students had a great debrief session, with each recognising where they were at in terms of infield ability and what they needed to do next.

Following the end of the bootcamp, we had dinner with a couple of the students before Vyron took us all to a local bathhouse.

This was fascinating. Growing up in Australia and living in America, I wasn’t really sure what to expect. Basically it’s a traditional (Greek / Roman I believe) bath house, where you walk around in the nude between steam rooms, a sauna, a cooling pool and shower areas. And yes, men and women of all shapes, sizes and age do this.

It was fascinating – both from a cultural standpoint and also from a social dynamics standpoint. It took most of us (except Micha) about 20 minutes to get comfortable walking around and sitting in a sauna in the nude, and even then we used towels while walking between rooms.

Contrast this to the cute German girl who somehow ended up in the sauna and pool with us and happily threw off her towel despite her erect nipples. And yes, one of the Rockstars did hit on her haha.

The interesting takeaway from the experience was this – certain cultures have this environment where they grow up comfortable with their sexuality and doing things like sitting in the nude in a public bathhouse with complete strangers, and they’re not weirded out by this. Contrast this to say the sexual repression that happens in most English-speaking countries, and it explains a lot.

From a game standpoint, it also made me realise that a lot of the “the girl is weirded out by this” feelings that I have had during sexual escalation in the past was really coming from me. And the corollary to this is that the more comfortable I become with my own sexuality and openness, the more comfortable the women that I interact with will be.

Highlights of the Day

• Bootcamp students: The Polish online casino king and Dutch porn comic artist.
• Polish online casino king, when asked if he gambles: “No, I don’t understand why people gamble.”
• Keychain imitating a tired penis following ejaculation: “Ugh… no way.”
• Josh to Alex in the bathhouse: “Alex, pull down your pants and come over here.”
• Finding out that Vercetti spent the night with some German girl.

- Aaron P

second day of munich bootcamp

This was the second day of bootcamp and the students were ready to go. A lot of them did really good and we talked them trough the debrief it’s really wonderfull to see the progress and understandings they made to their game.

We then had our first apperance for the press and had to be there for picture time in a german magazine. So time for us to strike a pose VOGUE… I think I can enjoy this.

Then me vercetti, keychain,soul and all the rockstars except Aaron decided that it would be better to go to oktober (constantly chrash into me) fest instead of a pornconvention, kind of gay. The reporter then thought for some reason that it would be awesome to try out the munich tubesystem that’s so crowded during oktober fest that security needs to direct people. (Btw oktoberfest is so overrated)

If you ever want to be overun by a horde of drunk germans wearing lederhosen, be my guest go to munich during oktoberfest. Not my cup of tea. Doubled back to the bootcamp with Keychain and Vercetti for a dinner with the guys. My dinner was (not miki’s recomandation) 8 deepfried bananas with icecream an chocolate saus it was so good,  a guilty pleasure indeed.

Bootcamp was held at the M-park witch is a rough and “shitty” place that’s huge. I got assigned a student that I easily sent in to set.   It was a really easy group of guys we had this bootcamp and they didn’t need much of a push to get them rolling. It all it turned out to be an awesome night with some really cool sets. I did a “demo” for student and it was probobly the coolest girl I’ve met so far in germany and she was american, I opened up with “do you speak english? Yes. Awesome you are absolutely gorgeous, what’s your name?” It’s so easy her in germany. I left her as I had to take care if students. 14:00 bootcamp over, 5 rockstars gathered and turning in to a force to be reckoned with, it’s absolutely hilarious gaming with this guys. Aaron sees something he like and runs after it Boom 2 min kissclose. He then needed some help with the friends and of course we’re the to “help out” and all the rockstars become pre occupied.

It’s mostly crash and bur from there got undressed by a russian girls eye, but had to bad logostics to pull her so ended up with blueballs and a makeout. Only to here Vercetti to manage a same night lay.

Better luck next time.

Cya

-love Micha

Day 14: Rockstars of Glory

The Day
Two weeks into Project Rockstar, and it is all starting to come together.

The day kicked off with some minor work on our ongoing projects and then the second day of Mr M’s Munich bootcamp.

All the students were given a debrief and specific feedback for what they needed to focus on for later tonight. Mr M then covered his theory of attraction, and a number of related techniques and concepts that allow you to build attraction easily and naturally.

The bootcamp felt long. Maybe it was lack of sleep from the previous night, but I found myself having to nip out for some fresh air in lieu of having a proper power nap. The rest of the Rockstars (having been on a Love Systems bootcamp before) went out for daygame at Oktoberfest with Soul, Keychain and Vercetti.

Post-bootcamp we all had dinner at a nearby Fujian place (I still find it cool that Asian people here speak German), then bounced back to our various accommodations to rest up for bootcamp. I took a 20 minute power nap, downed some green drink (thanks LondonHunk!) and got ready to head out. I also had the chance to spend some time talking with Soul (http://www.lifewithsoul.com) about escalation anxiety, pulling the trigger and sexual intent. He gave me some advice about trying out different things, and finding different sexual elements to play with – quantity, quality or challenge.

Bootcamp
In field was pretty gruelling. After an absolutely incredible night yesterday, the combination of a different venue and the wear of less sleep and seminar time was showing in the students. Nonetheless, each and every student was able to push forward in their game, and work on in throughout the night.

The club we were at was huge. Something of an industrial warehouse converted into a nightclub. A ton of rooms, huge circular central area and an insane number of people. The demographics of the people there was definitely different from the first night of bootcamp – girls were younger and more middle-class, but also a lot more fun.

I observed students in a number of sets and gave them feedback (plus some for tomorrow’s seminar), and also did a couple of demo sets that involved me getting blown out haha.

For example-
Boring girl: she is dancing by herself. Her friend and her friend’s boyfriend are making out behind her. I open, pull her down and begin to rapidly escalate. We get face-to-face. I test for a kiss – no-go. I talk more. Test again – no-go. Her friend’s boyfriend sees this, and pulls her up and whispers something in German in her ear. She freaks. He then tells me that we should go together, presumably to hook up. The girl is freaking out at this point, so I talk with her friend for a bit then leave.

Vietnamese girls: ran up, stopped them, talked for a bit, then proceeded to pick one up, spin hug her and carry her off. Her friend understandably freaked a bit and they ran off giggling.

More Asian girls: Opened 3 of them who had just entered the nightclub… they jumped a foot backwards when I opened and ran off.

Random girls walking by: I was just grabbing them and going direct. Most of them either blew me off, or said thanks and disappeared.

Bringing Down The House
Once 2am rolled around, the Rockstars went nuts. I gathered up Josh and Vishal and Micha and we decided to play veto extreme – it’s kind of like veto, but you have to veto someone every ten seconds.

We open a ton of sets. From what I remember…
Girl outside ladies room
I walk up to her, say “hey” loudly, she jumps a bit, and looks super nervous. She looks like she is about to bolt then I spot her boyfriend. He says something in German, and I say “you’re a very lucky man”. He says thanks and they both leave.

Birthday Party
This was a 6 set of girls the Vishal vetoed me on. Despite not really wanting to do it, I went in with “Hi, my name’s Aaron.” I then looked for the reactions. Two of the girl went green, the other four were red or yellow. I engaged the ones that went green, sat down on the edge of a table nearby and started talking.

It turned out to be a birthday party, and before I knew it Vishal and Josh were there in set with me. After chatting with the less attractive girl for a bit, I started to talking to the more attracted one (freckles, redhead, hmmmmmm). I locked in next to her, so she was facing away from her friends and talked and began to escalate.

At one point Mr M stopped by and gave me some feedback: when escalating physically, instead of using larger smiles to ease tension, I should look away instead, and smile less. A subtle difference, but one that will undoubtedly pay dividends over the upcoming weeks.

About ten minutes in I noticed that Josh had left, and Vishal was engaging two of the girls on the other side of the bench. Their less-attractive seventh friend had also made an appearance with champagne, and they were getting ready to toast. Josh motioned me to join him elsewhere so I left. In the quick debrief Mr M mentioned that I could have isolated and made out with the girl. Grrrr…

More random girls walking by
Lots of grabbing and going direct. Some nice interactions, but nothing spectacular.

30-second makeout with pictures
This set was pure awesomeness and a logistical nightmare. After playing veto extreme with the other Rockstars, I spot four girls making their way into one of the rooms of the club. I sprint, against the advice of my still-sprained ankle, after them. Mr M does a double take as I rush past him. I miss the first three but I open the last one.

I swing her around in a more aggressive sort of daygame-style spin, and tell her that her dierndl makes her look absolutely adorable. She lights up. We exchange names. I tell her she is crazy. I give her a hug, and spin her around. I then pull her in close, and I stare into her soft blue eyes. I stroke her face, and brush her hair away, and without further words, we kiss. She grabs me in and we make out. I stare back at her and we exchange a moment, then she takes my hand and pulls me towards her friends. I meet them, briefly.

We all head to the dance floor, and while everyone dances away to the high-energy beat of the music I am simply slow-waltzing and rocking back and forth with my girl. We kiss, her friends see this and two of them disappear. The remaining friend wants to dance more, and we end up on a platform.

Hilarity ensues. Some random German guy spills beer on the girl’s friend. She is freaked, and pissed. We move slightly away from him, but he is persistent. Next thing I know, he is grinding with me girl’s friend and trying to kiss her. He does not succeed initially, but he keeps going. This is perfect for me – an instant and impromptu wing. We move again to the main dance floor and towards a quieter area of the club as I want to isolate. Unfortunate my new-found wingman is being overly aggressive and groping the girl while forcing a makeout. He loses the girl, and I find myself being dragged away by my girl and her girlfriend to get away from him.

As we wander around the quieter parts of the club I found out more about them. They are au pairs visiting from different parts of Europe, having just arrived for Oktoberfest. None of them use facebook or have German cell numbers. This is unfortunate. Perhaps I should have taken my girl’s Italian cell number, but this felt like more of a this-night-only kind of thing.

We wind up back in the main club room, on the dance floor, rejoined by the rest of the girlfriends. I propose we head to the bar for a drink. On the way there, I spot Soul and MunichHawk standing nearby, and motion them to come wing. They smile, and I soon see why. At the bar, the navy seals team is there: Josh, Vishal, Micha and Alex. I introduce my girl to Micha and Josh, and they are introduced to her friends. Vishal joins us. Vercetti and Mr M are standing nearby, smiling like proud parents. Some bootcamp students meander over and watch, as we all mini-isolate each of the girls and proceed to make out with them… I bit my girl on the neck too, just for fun

25 seconds into the set

Hmmm...

Rockstar Glory.

The girls’ buying temperatures must have been sky-high, as some of them became very giggly and they all rushed off the dance floor, never to be seen again. It was a bittersweet ending to an otherwise awesome interaction. Perhaps we could have seeded and created a bounce back to our place for an afterparty, but perhaps not.

Takeaways

• Easing tension while physically escalating – smile less, and takeaway by looking away rather than smiling more.
• Sexual intent and escalation anxiety – experiment, try everything and stretch the imagination. Challenge myself. During the final mini-isolation I had my hand on the girl’s lower back. Soul walked over and repositioned it to her behind… he later told me that I should have gave it a nice squeeze and proceeded to escalate further, just to see where things would go.
• Comfort point – there was a moment during the final set/interaction where the girl went “ohhhh” and was pressed up comfortably against me. Soul tells me that this was the point where she felt comfortable to take things physically to the next level, and that next time it happens I should watch for it and continue things forward.
• English – speaking English in Europe is fun. When in doubt, open with “do you speak English?”
• Closing – yes, things are improving, but I feel that I can still be closing more. Numbers or facebook as contingencies, and pushing even faster physical escalation as the main aim.

Highlights of the Day

• The mystery of the petite Polish blonde and the Beast. I think every student and instructor hit on this set at some point… how an adorable, cute and sexy Polish girl was paired with an absolute beast of a woman is beyond all of us.
• Standing outside the apartment building next to where we were staying trying to work out why the key didn’t fit before realising that we were trying to open the door to the building next door.
• Mr M: “After teaching bootcamp, I kind of understand how strippers feel when they’ve been dancing all night.”
• Soul: “Gaming is like being a duck. On the surface, you are smoothly gliding across the water… but underneath, you’re furiously kicking your feet away.”
• Shout out to Mr Wong from Australia – thanks for reading mate!

- Aaron P

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